→Disputed deletions: before contacting the deleting administrator *and obtaining his agreement*. I think this is the key. Otherwise go to other admins/DRV/etc.
AdmininstratorsAdministrators who dispute a deletion of a page where this policy has been cited by the deleting administrator should not reverse it before contacting the deleting administrator and obtaining his agreement. The deleting admin should be willing to explain the deletion to other admins, by e-mail if the material is sensitive; administrators who object to the deletion should bear in mind that the deleting admin may be aware of issues that others are not. Where appropriate, disputes can be taken to [[Wikipedia:Deletion review|Deletion review]], but any protracted public discussion (including deletion review) of sensitive personal material about living persons, particularly if it is negative, should be avoided.
